Let $P=x+y+z+u, Q=xy+xz+xu+yz+yu+zu$. Then the first equation becomes
$x^2-(Q-xy-xz-xu)=a$
$x^2-Q+x(P-x)=a$
$Px-Q=a$
Similarly, the other equations become
$Py-Q=b$
$Pz-Q=c$
$Pu-Q=d$
Now $x={a+Q\over P},y={b+Q\over P},z={c+Q\over P},u={d+Q\over P}$, hence
$P={a+b+c+d+4Q\over P}\implies P^2=4Q+a+b+c+d\quad(*)$
$Q={ab+ac+ad+bc+bd+cd+3Q(a+b+c+d)+6Q^2\over P^2}$
Plugging $(*)$ into this we get
$4Q^2+(a+b+c+d)Q=ab+ac+ad+bc+bd+cd+3Q(a+b+c+d)+6Q^2$, hence
$2Q^2+2Q(a+b+c+d)+ab+ac+ad+bc+bd+cd=0$
Thus $Q_{1,2}={-(a+b+c+d)\pm\sqrt{a^2+b^2+c^2+d^2}\over 2}$
For each of those values we get two quadruplets:
$(x,y,z,u)=\left({a+Q\over\sqrt{4Q+a+b+c+d}},{b+Q\over\sqrt{4Q+a+b+c+d}},{c+Q\over\sqrt{4Q+a+b+c+d}},{d+Q\over\sqrt{4Q+a+b+c+d}}\right)$
or
$(x,y,z,u)=\left(-{a+Q\over\sqrt{4Q+a+b+c+d}},-{b+Q\over\sqrt{4Q+a+b+c+d}},-{c+Q\over\sqrt{4Q+a+b+c+d}},-{d+Q\over\sqrt{4Q+a+b+c+d}}\right)$