A parallelogram $ABCD$ with $|AD| =|BD|$ has been given. A point $E$ lies on line segment $|BD|$ in such a way that $|AE| = |DE|$. The (extended) line $AE$ intersects line segment $BC$ in $F$. Line $DF$ is the angle bisector of angle $CDE$. Determine the size of angle $ABD$. [asy][asy] unitsize (3 cm); pair A, B, C, D, E, F; D = (0,0); A = dir(250); B = dir(290); C = B + D - A; E = extension((A + D)/2, (A + D)/2 + rotate(90)*(A - D), B, D); F = extension(A, E, B, C); draw(A--B--C--D--cycle); draw(A--F--D--B); dot("$A$", A, SW); dot("$B$", B, SE); dot("$C$", C, NE); dot("$D$", D, NW); dot("$E$", E, S); dot("$F$", F, SE); [/asy][/asy]