Solve the system of equations: $\left\{ \begin{aligned} x^4+y^2-xy^3-\frac{9}{8}x = 0 \\ y^4+x^2-yx^3-\frac{9}{8}y=0 \end{aligned} \right.$

Two circles are tangent externaly at a point $B$. A line tangent to one of the circles at a point $A$ intersects the other circle at points $C$ and $D$. Show that $A$ is equidistant to the lines $BC$ and $BD$.

Show that if $a+b+c=0$ then $(\frac{a}{b-c}+\frac{b}{c-a}+\frac{c}{a-b})(\frac{b-c}{a}+\frac{c-a}{b}+\frac{a-b}{c})=9$.

Find the maximal cardinality $|S|$ of the subset $S \subset A=\{1, 2, 3, \dots, 9\}$ given that no two sums $a+b | a, b \in S, a \neq b$ are equal.